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About this course

I have always had an interest in how the mind works and in 2010 I started learning NLP and Hypnotherapy. Since then I have learned many other techniques. This course will NOT be covering the techniques and methodologies that were the starting blocks for my work. I would not be doing them justice, nor would I like to cover element that I don’t use, and I don’t want to spend time teaching principles, from an angle that people already know well.

It will be covering what I actually use in my work, which was refined from that learning and practice. Therefore, if you do NOT have an existing grounding in the fundamentals of working with these types of clients this training WILL NOT be of use to you (yet). For those who do have, this will be a valuable addition of what I found to work in several thousand cases of treatments to dramatically reduce anxiety (or similar issues) and make a major breakthrough in just one session. My sessions were one client per day and for as long as it took (fixed price sessions averaging about 3 hours). You can, of course, do it over as many sessions and the duration of your choice. I have shared the Gold Nuggets from my work - what actually worked, not a sanitised version of what would be easier and less controversial to tell you.

Where possible I will attribute what I learned to the original source of inspiration, please forgive me if I can no longer sufficiently separate it out to do so.

All my work is based on stripping what is done back to the basic principles. I will NOT be explaining the science behind it that comes with the original training, nor will I be using technical words or explanations. I WILL be explaining the logical principles of why it works so effectively – from a logical point of view.

My training has often included Doctors and Psychologists, and those so far have all been happy with my explanations, without needing the scientific detail or language. My simplicity of explanation is deliberate because it is the same for training people as it is for the client’s I work with, as the explanations are part of the therapy process.

The contents will take you through:

  • The concepts that are behind the success of all sessions.
  • The whole process, from inquiry to client leaving with a satisfactory result.
  • The education elements that will assist the client to let go of the problem.
  • The techniques, in full, that I developed or created.
  • Transcripts from 5 very different case studies (around 20 hours of sessions).
  • Within the cost - Access to all the training element a Client can purchase for self-help.

When you have trained you can become an OldStuff2LetGo® Practitioner. There will be a mutual agreement between us that you should get work from the visitors to our website who purchase the self help pack, as they will be directed to have a session or sessions with an OldStuff2LetGo® Practitioner, and we would expect OldStuff2LetGo® Practitioners to advise those clients who have not already purchased the pack to do so. This should generate work each way as a mutual benefit and it will not be commission based, either way, just a mutual working together, both benefiting from the work generated from the web site.

I hope that you will take from my body of learning the many gold nuggets I have to share.

I don’t expect you to work in the same way as me, I am somewhat of a maverick, only concerned with a result that client wants, not what people might think of me. You will be pleasantly surprised and, may sometimes, be disturbed by what I am sharing. 

I do expect you to take the parts you find will suit you and will help the client, and merge them into how you currently operate, to increase your skills, increase your effectiveness, and most likely get you to a result even quicker.

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Course Structure

Introduction - Will this be beneficial to you? 1 Lesson

Steven Shares His Experience and Methods.

I am sharing my learning and adaptation of what made me effective in helping clients with anxiety or other issues that are related to the removal, or resetting of emotional pain programs. I will not be teaching the basic skills I learned such as Hypnotherapy and NLP. If you already have the basic skills in helping this type of clients, you should find the training very beneficial. If you don’t already deal with these clients or have the basic skills in place, I would suggest you learn this later when it would be more beneficial to do so.

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Pre-Consultation 1 Lesson

Why I prefer Minimal Information

Any Disadvantage of Getting Better?

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Seeking The Solution 2 Lessons

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Educating The Client 45 Lessons

Worry, Regret and Predictions

What If my Heart stopped? Unconscious: let me show you!

Watch The Language!

You instead of I, Try, and indicative figures of speech.

Must Remember Instead of shouldn't forget.

Repetitive Negatives keep us stuck and we believe them.

Ellies Funeral - Don't break Down!

Current or Past tense Language

Understanding Conscious/Unconscious Dynamic

Unconscious does what it thinks is best and is influenced by conscious.

Thanking/appreciating the Unconscious

Brain is complex but works in a similar way in everyone.


Born Different

Perception is everything.

We all have a different map of the world. Don't get others to move their map to suit yours.

Resetting a Safety Program

Anxiety filters every thought.


Thoughts are Not Reality - They Just Feel That Way

Manifest what we ask for - Good Or Bad

pretend oil squirted into knee.


We Are All Programmed

wired, match seeking, parents, etc.

We train others how to treat us, then don't like it.

Not To Blame

Forgive and love the younger you and reassure them.


We Only Live in The Moment

Rehearsing Things Going Wrong

Name one thing you worried about that happened.

We Remember How Things Ended

Easy to forget the people we dump but not the ones who dump us.

Why We Sabotage

Rejecting People so they cannot hurt us.

Rejecting compliments not realising we cause hurt.

example of foster kid burning house down.

People aren't Doer up opportunities.



Passion for Change

The unknown is not scary, it is the imagination of the worst case scenario that is. As long as the future decision will be made by us that is all we can do.


Imagine Yourself In The Future If You Hadn't Decided To Change

What Number would you like to walk away with?


People Pleasing

Oxygen Mask on the Plane.

Please yourself not desperate for external love.


Who's Voice is It?

Voices in head are normal.

Body Shape Changes To Suit Feeling n(and Vice Versa)

Mimic The Posture, get clues how they feel.

External Influencers

lack of trust in self.


We Don't Hear What was Said

We hear what we think they will say. Example Sarah n Doctor.



Lack of Assertiveness Causes many Problems

Not your Job to please others.

Making Life Simple

Big Picture. Living Life On Auto.


Don't feed the Monster.

Mole Removal Story.


Dealing With Bullying and/or Narcissistic Behaviour

It Only Hurts If We Check If It Is True.

A Boy Named Betty.

The Difference between Anxiety and Depression

Sticky Marbles.

Hiding in a Black Sack.

A chemical Imbalance made by negative thoughts.

Highs And Lows

How we cut short the good with poor expectations but expect the bad to last.

Not Black and white , most things have grey.

Thoughts make Chemicals.


OCD Explained


Superstition: Pigeon Flapping wing to be fed

Lead The Client By Example

Aikido, the attacker is ugly. Car Skid, look where you want to go.

Great Questions

Who's in charge of your feelings now?

Instead of trying to controlling others to fit in with you, how about controlling you?

Third Person Chair

Become the problem person to see how they think.

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Practical Processes (Techniques and Methods) 17 Lessons

Shock Tactics

Kill The Client (pretend).


Forcing client to reveal deepest fear - Die a terrible Fucking agonising death - Good     That you said it.


Agreeing with them, or pointing out how they would feel if we repeated what they are saying to themselves.



Accepting what you can or cannot change

Cut The Elastic

If leaning heavily we would fall over so need to stop pulling and make it slack before release.


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Concluding, Testing and Forward Pacing 2 Lessons

Test Now, Test Future.

Dealing with the issues as they happen not previewing every possibly bad case scenario.

Conclude, Reinforce and Maintenance

Thank Unconscious, praise it for how it will help them in the future.

Summarise that we have found the cause and dealt with it.

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Suggestions For Further Help That May Be Beneficial. 1 Lesson

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Various Case Studies 1 Lesson

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Short Examples 4 Lessons

The Boy Holding The Pram

Hit side of ear, numb down one side.

Who Is Raping Him Now?

Gang Raped at 13 has thoughts about it every day

Adopted Boy From Abusive Home.

Spend your life thinking about the shitty start or realise you then won the jackpot - your choice.

Miserable Woman

Husband cheated 30 years ago. then 20 years ago. Used it to make him miserable not realising it also made her miserable.