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Apr 29

What Present Do You Want?

By StevenBlakemba | Uncategorized

Ever been asked what you want for your Birthday? There are two ways of answering, a direct approach - "Oh I would love that someone bought me a......" or you just drop hints, hoping they can afford and will buy you whatever it is. You will have realised by now that if you really want something - you have to state very clearly what it is, including the details so they buy you the right thing. Hints don't work well either for you or the person buying the present. They want to get something you will love and are concerned they will get it wrong, so may fall back on a safe option, or just simply get it wrong whilst thinking they are getting it right.

The present moment is the only moment we have. That is why it is called the present. We get to choose what to fill our present with - this is called free will. If we don't enjoy the present it is often that we aren't living in it. We all spend a lot of time in the future or in the past in our thoughts. We go over regrets or injustices as though we can somehow change it by thinking about it yet again. Or we project ourselves into the future, often into the worry of predicting a bad outcome for something that is yet to happen.

The thing few people know but should is that the unconscious gets confused by negatives. When we think about what we don't want that is exactly what it delivers to us. We have a conscious mind for free will and the unconscious to carry out what we have asked for by running any one of millions of programs available to it. This is why we don't have to think about walking, only where we want to get to. When you want someone to buy you a car for your birthday, you can't just answer "don't buy me a pen", when they ask what you want. A pen may be the only thing that sticks in their memory and therefore that is what you get.

Your unconscious struggles each day to make sense of what it thinks you are asking for. According to Eckhart Tolle 70% of our thoughts are negative. That is one hell of a lot of confusion for the unconscious trying to decipher what you want!

The answer is simple. For a life you can love, be clear what you ask for in your thoughts, including the details that are needed. The unconscious can then do its best to provide you with it. Enjoy your present!


May 06

Pain is like a Fire Alarm

By StevenBlakemba | Uncategorized

Are you in pain that you have had a long time? Please read this....

Imagine you live in a house where the smoke alarm triggered 10 years ago for a fire that was put out that night. However, the alarm has continued to ring incredibly loudly 24 hours a day 7 days a week ever since.
You cannot throw the alarm away or take the batteries out because that would put you at the risk of serious injury or death, and so would muffling the sound with a pillow. So you can’t live with this alarm, but you also cannot live without it!
Have you ever thought that whilst it keeps ringing loudly, it will not alert you if a new fire has started in the vicinity? Or that eventually it will need to ring evermore louder so that you are still aware of it and alert?
So imagine now that someone invents a reset button. It is simple to operate all you do is press it once and it tells the alarm that the fire it warned us about is out, and it can now look out for new fires. The first fire may have caused irreparable damage but that is not the concern of the smoke alarm, it is programmed so that the smell of charcoal does not falsely trigger it. Its only job is to alert us to present danger only as and when it happens.
Old pain is like an alarm, it carries on telling you a message that you acted on a long time ago. If there is no need to remind you then you can safely have it reset.

Apr 23

The 5 Lies of Fibromyalgia

By StevenBlakemba | Uncategorized

The 5 lies of Fibromyalgia

Fibromyalgia is not only a hidden illness; most of what is written about it is either irrelevant or simply untrue.

Lie #1, The cause is unknown.

Lie #2, There is no “cure.”

Lie #3, There will be a pharmaceutical answer.

Lie #4, People with Fibro all have the same illness.

Lie #5, Being a Fibro Warrior is a good idea.

The Background

I write this as someone who has successfully helped many people on the road to recovery from Fibromyalgia, M.E. and C.F.S.. I consider all three illnesses to be part of the same syndrome I call Burnout Overload Safety System (B.O.S.S.). Why do I call it that? Because although it starts off as a protective system, it becomes the boss of you!

I now train others to do the same work and they too get good results, so the great news is that there is hope and you don’t have to wait for a future breakthrough – it is here now. So here is my personal explanation and my beliefs for your scrutiny. I make no claims it is right or it is the only way. Just that it consistently works for most people I have worked with and the more I do it the more successful it is.

The Symptoms

People compare their symptoms, yet no two people have exactly the same symptoms or severity of problems. Exchanging ideas for relief from symptoms or arguing about the illness needing more awareness or better diagnosis distracts from what is really needed – the answer to why the illness starts and get progressively worse. You see this is your own special illness, totally unique for you, being a special blend of all the things that should make you rest – physically and mentally. But they don’t do they?

A Drug that Cures?

If you are waiting for a pharmaceutical answer, please don’t hold your breath because it is NEVER coming. Why? Because you all have a unique illness! A drug that was made for one specific sufferer would not work on you or anyone else. It would only work on that one person and then the drug company would have to spend several million more developing it for the next person with their individual symptoms and so on.

Common Traits

Everyone so far that I have met with the BOSS range of illnesses have one outstanding trait – You are all people who are highly driven physically, mentally, or both. You all like things done well and specifically done your own way. You stop people from helping you, and do it yourself, so as to get it done right, thereby increasing your workload dramatically. You look after everyone else before looking after yourself and will often feel that all those around you would not do very well if you did not prepare for them, cajole and look after them. Because of this you take on more than you can physically manage and your thought processes are always on overload. Is that you?

The Cause

It is my theory that the stresses your mind and body are under cause it to come up with a cunning plan. The parts of you brain that controls your body designs a program that it runs to prevent you from dying. It truly believes this constant stress and overload will kill you, possibly a heart attack or a stroke. So it does what it does best it automates a protective program. Quite simply it does whatever it can, that it thinks will slow you down and calm you down. The best way to do this is pain and fatigue. Whether you get more of one than the other is a calculation done in conjunction with your nervous system and your memories of things that slowed or calmed you in the past. If you walk or run it makes your legs incapable, if you get upset watching the news it will give you severe light insensitivity, if you over-think it will give you brain fog. This is not you consciously making yourself ill, this is your automated systems taking over. Because you didn’t understand this as a message, or because you ignore it and fight through all it can do is keep making the condition worse until you learn – or until it can’t make it any worse. Being a “Fibro Warrior” is the worst thing you can do, all that fighting the illness (message) does is speed up your deterioration.

The Safety Program

In effect your illness is a message to stop doing what is harming you, the stress of being busy in body and mind. Whilst this illness does seem to creep up on you, it usually has a memorable start to the change in intensity of it. This noticeable start can be anything that makes you immobile for a week or two. This can range from the loss of a loved one, a car accident, an immunisation, a virus etc. What was yours?

You Just Do Not listen

As a person with a driven nature you do not give up easily! That’s an understatement, because in reality only death is likely to stop you and that’s why you are ill…. The best analogy I can give to explain is that you are like a driver doing 100 mph in a 50 mph zone and that’s what you enjoy. Unfortunately the police catch you every time and pull you up in a lay-by whilst they remind you once again of the dangers to yourself and others. When they let you go, you now do 120 mph to try and catch up. And of course the Police pull you up again and remind you how dangerous it is. But you don’t listen and so your life is run at an average speed of about 10 mph or less as you spend most of your time in lay-bys being told off or short bursts at 100 mph plus.

The Release

I help people release themselves from Old Pain, the sort of pain where nothing can be done except pain relief. It is a simple job to convince the unconscious to let go of old messages that are no longer relevant. However in the case of Fibromyalgia the pain is still seen to be necessary as it is there to slow you down and give you chance to recover. But slow down you do not and so the message has progressively got stronger and more consistent. So how do we break this viscous cycle? Quite simply you have to understand your role in this. If you were a child constantly pulling on your parent’s hand and leaning towards the busy road would they ever let go? Of course they wouldn’t. You would have to stop leaning and pulling and when they get to the point of trusting you they can finally let go – although if you let them down they will hold you firmly again. The same goes for any of the BOSS illnesses. Once you understand that if you make a pact with your unconscious mind to slow down to a human pace and stop trying to be super-human, it can let you have your freedom. It will of course give you your pain back if you don’t stick to your agreement. That’s why I can help people on the road to recovery and the pain removal is usually instant. How long you remain pain free is up to you!

With Love, Steven Blake

Apr 07

Understanding Pain

By StevenBlakemba | Uncategorized


Been in pain a long time? Would you like to be free of it? It is highly likely that you can be, in fact the longer you have had the pain the easier it is to remove it – let me explain. New Pain is necessary for survival, it makes you take your hand off a hot stove, or stop using a limb with a broken bone. The Pain is appropriate for the damage, a small cut hurts a bit, but a broken arm will be very painful and make an urgency to get it fixed. Once the damaged area has been attended to and the appropriate action taken the pain goes away! But not always…..

You see pain isn’t what it seems. Pain always appears to be at the very place the damage is, it has to be that way so that we look in the right place. And yet pain is really a message that is created in the head and transmitted to the damaged area, both chemically and electrically. It is created following a lot of messages flowing back and forth in the body, the cells report in about the damage and then all the information gathering goes on including the visuals (does it look bad?) and the memory (what happened last time?). Even how you feel about the incident will affect the pain level, if you feel someone hurt you intentionally the pain is stronger and lasts longer than if they hurt you accidentally and apologised profusely.

Pain is really a complex mixture of all the senses focusing on trying to help and repair by focusing on an area that needs the most help. Pain forces us to tense up to protect the area and then inflammation is provided to help heal. Whilst pain stays, so does the inflammation, which then does more damage than good.

At some point the pain should stop! The message has been heard and acted on, suitable medical attention has been had and you now are either told there is nothing they can find wrong with you or that the pain will continue because of the damage done and the best that can be done is pain relief! If that is where you are now, then that is the very pain that can be released from. Why? Because the Pain Message is no longer required – it has done its job. You are aware of the damage so continuing to give you pain is totally redundant and unnecessary.

Even with degenerative conditions the pain is unhelpful because it masks that area with the Old Pain making it difficult to distinguish any further deterioration or new damage. With Arthritis for instance, why do you need pain to remind you of the difficulties of movement – you don’t, and often it is also visibly reinforced that you have a problem (wrists locked up etc.).

Pain killers become less effective over time, in fact, if the body feels it needs pain it will fight the drugs that try to stop the message getting through. So the pain intensifies and spreads and the drugs become ever less effective whilst also causing the other problems associated with drug taking. The brain is the transmitter for these messages and the area where pain appears is the receiver. Drugs are designed not to turn off the message but to give it contradictory messages to block or interfere with the pain message getting through. How stupid is that – when you compare it with just asking the the operator to stop transmitting that old message!


So, what is the answer? OldPain2Go® works by bargaining with unconscious mind, which can operate all the body’s systems.  Quite simply we ask it, that unless there is a reason to keep the pain, to erase that Old Pain Message. Once we have given the unconscious enough to convince it to remove the Old Pain Message it does so – INSTANTLY (it may be a few minutes before the full effect is felt).

OldPain2Go® is constantly developing and in its early stages had results that about half the people lost the pain totally and the other half had a dramatic reduction in pain. Recently those developments are making it so that those who totally lose all their Pain is very close to 100%.

We now also understand better who would not be a good candidate for the OldPain2Go® system. Quite frankly that is anyone who has more reasons to keep the pain than to lose it! We cannot help the people who love to moan that no one can help them! Or those that have had a life being a “Misery Guts” because they just won’t allow the healing.

Who we can help: anyone who really would improve their life by being pain free. You don’t have to believe it will work. All you need is to want it to work, most clients are sceptical, before, during and even after several months of being pain free! Because this treatment is way outside most peoples belief system, it does seem like being Pain free is an illusion and yet pain itself is the illusion, all we do is remove that terrible all consuming, life destroying illusion.

No trance, no physical manipulation, just a conscious discussion with you that your unconscious listens in on – it really is as simple as that. And by the way, you reading this has meant your unconscious also absorbed it, so I’m asking it to get you to pick up the phone and find out more about being pain free – no obligation. So unless you are a Misery Guts get dialling!

Love always, Steven 01526 832 563